What is sex like the first time?
The first time you have sex is different for everyone.
Try to relax. Taking your time can help.
Make sure nobody can disturb you. You will be more relaxed.
Talk to each other about what you like and what you do not like.
If it hurts a bit
It may hurt a bit the first time you have sexual intercourse. There can be different reasons for this:
- A woman will be less aroused if she feels scared or insecure. Her vagina will remain too dry and her pelvic floor muscles will contract. This means her vagina will be too tight which makes penetration difficult or impossible. Try to relax.
- The foreskin of the man’s penis may be too tight and not slide well over the glans. You can make this better by regularly pulling the foreskin over the glans. If the pain remains, you should go to the doctor. Men who have been circumcised no longer have a foreskin.
You will only discover what you both like and how and when you can have an orgasm after some time. You do not always need to have an orgasm. Get to know each other better and gain experience.